Looking for the details

5 12 2011

Sometimes I find myself taking things on first view without inspection instead of asking questions or looking for details that don’t present themselves initially.  It’s lazy and worsens one’s ability to be critical.

When I was cleaning out my grandmother’s apartment in Philly with my mom and sister, my sister found this old picture with musicians performing.  It was very “me” to say the least, so I brought it back to Brooklyn with me.

Flash forward a couple weeks.  I went on an overnight trip to Philly with my roommate Paul to see Ryan Adams.  We stayed at my parent’s house and when my mom asked what he thought of the picture, it dawned on me that he hadn’t seen it yet since we have conflicting schedules.  When we got back to the apartment I showed him the picture and he asked if I knew anything about it.

It reignited my desire to find out more details, so I googled “Sam Ashkynase Conductor” because they were the only words that we easily legible on the band sign in the picture.  The first thing that came up was Sam Ash’s wiki page.  For those who don’t know, Sam Ash Music is one of the most successful music instrument retail chains in the country.  This led me to 3 theories on why my grandparents had this picture:

  1. I had a family member in the band.
  2. I’m related to Sam Ash somehow.
  3. Sam Ash’s family were friends with my grandfather’s family (both of Austria-Hungarian descent)

Paul, interested in helping me out, tracked down one of the current top execs at Sam Ash Music (via Linked In).  He then figured out the email address formats for Sam Ash employees (ie first.last@company.com), so I contacted what I thought to be the email address for that exec (it thankfully didn’t bounce back). Concurrently, I emailed my parents, sister, uncle, and cousins to let them know about this, to which my mom replied that either of them could be theoretically possible since my great grandfather moved from Austria to New York City.

As of now, I’m still waiting on a response from Sam Ash, but it boggles me what one picture, pushing myself to look for the details, and investigating further can do.  It’s about the picture, but it’s not at the same time because there’s a pleasure in finding things out…Richard Feyman would agree.

UPDATE:  I got a response from Sam Ash Music and should be meeting with them soon





I suffer from a minor case of time urgency

31 05 2011

I have a problem.  The problem is called time urgency.  It goes beyond impatience, ADHD, and high stress anxiety.  It’s an addiction that’s detrimental to one’s health.  The worst part is that it could have been prevented and it can be stopped.

The constant need to check the phone.  To respond to an email.  To constantly be doing things.   All this leads to an extreme mismanagement of time.

People with time urgency dive into a task without planning and often are looking at what they have to do next before they’re done their current task.  They’re constantly overwhelmed without knowing where to start.

What happens is that people train their minds into embracing the illusion that action is productivity, so people with time urgency are always active doing something, regardless if what they’re doing is productive.  It could be wasting time online, allowing themselves to be pulled in multiple directions, compulsively check and respond to email, or just not being focused enough to correctly fulfill.

For me, my best deterrent of time urgency is planning.  I’m not a planner, but making many many many mistakes as a tour manager has forced this upon me even today to this day as I work in social media advertising.  And the more you give yourself slack with this work ethic, the easier you are to give it up completely, so it’s important to stick with it. I keep small notebooks of to do lists and meeting notes.  Aside from having written reminders, writing things down makes the task at hand mentally stronger.

So drop $5 on a pen and small notebook and give it a try.  If you fail, feel free to email me and I’ll try give you some more specific suggestions.





iPhone Pictural Guide of Seattle (aka my first vacation in 2 years)

27 05 2011

I just got back from Seattle where I spent most of my time eating and walking, like any good vacation. The trip started off in Union, Washington for my girlfriend’s college friends’ wedding.  Union was out there about 100 miles outside the city, which was exactly what I needed after 2 years of straight grind and no vacation.  Fresh air.  Fresh seafood.  Tasty local microbrews–I even tried a sample of a beer around 9am at brunch…waiter’s idea, not mine.

Food and Drink:

The pics below were all taken with my iPhone (using Camera+) and include hiking, eating, drinking, Pike Place Market, Underground Tour, Experience Music Project, and wondering around town.

http://www.flickr.com/apps/slideshow/show.swf?v=71649





2010 Year in Review

27 12 2010

This isn’t about the best albums or concerts of the year.  Nor is it about the election or international affairs.  This is about my year in review.  Where was I in December 2009 compared to now.

Like any year, 2010 was about ups and downs.  They’re inevitable as a result of the balance of the world because if you think about it, for every high, there’s a equivalent low.  People allow the lows to tarnish their perspective on their life, but if you step back and see the bigger picture of what you accomplished (big or small), you can see the beauty in each day.

A few noteworthy events/accomplishments from the year:

  • I moved from Greenpoint to Williamsburg (which is another way of saying Poland to Italy)
  • I went from living with friends to living with strangers (I recommend the latter)
  • I went to SXSW and helped plan the first annual FlashFwd
  • I started the Backyard Brunch Sessions in April and produced 8 episodes (4 of which have been released so far)
  • I made bagels completely from scratch for the first time with my oldest friend Josh
  • I went hiking on Bear Mountain
  • I bought my first two pieces of art
  • I made a pie from apples I picked at Masker Orchards
  • I was a groomsman in two weddings
  • I helped plan and execute the Summer Music Junkie contest
  • I planned Brunch After Dark at Brooklyn Bowl and 537 people showed up
  • I went to Las Vegas for the first time to speak at Blog World
  • I began to have an appreciation for bourbon and scotch (thanks to my roomie Jeff)
  • I Interviewed 20 fascinating people for SoundCtrl
  • I didn’t get any parking tickets (but I did get a traffic ticket near the New Jersey/New York border)
  • I started the year off with a desk job and ended the year with a desk job
  • And last but not least, I met a girl in my backyard whose sister she set me up with, ended up becoming my girlfriend

I could probably keep going, but you get the point.  I value the big as much as the small because in the balance of things, you have to appreciate it all. All things considered, 2010 was awesome, and 2011 will be the same (even if you hear me complaining one day and smirking the next).





I’m done telling other people what I want to do…

15 09 2010

…until it’s already been done.

I recently watched this TED talk with CD Baby founder Derek Sivers and it got me thinking.  The more I tell people about personal or professional goals I have, more excuses I give myself not to do it or do it half-ass.

I tell some friends to hit me when I bite my nails, so now their other job will be to hit me when I start talking about my goals.

Nonetheless, I’m done with it.  My mouth is shut.





Making s*** happen

30 06 2010

After a chat with my concerned 96-year old grandfather who religiously reads my blog, I have tried to abstain from using profanities.  However, for this one…there’s no other way to explain myself:  people are talkers or they make shit happen.  Simple as that.

For a long time I was a talker who would allude to all the cool things that I wanted to do without much execution.  I would get excited  by all my ideas.  The people that make shit happen realize that everyone has ideas on top of the fact that they simply can’t do everything that comes to their mind.

And when I would actually lightly try or not try at all, I would immediately make lame excuses or blame other people.  It was a fear of failing, but now I just don’t care.  I’m a smart and capable person who is prepared to take chances and deal with the consequences (if any).  Taking chances and putting yourself out there allows you to move forward in life both professionally and socially speaking.

However, I had never really realized that I had officially switched over until a couple weeks ago when my friend Jon told me, “I have to introduce you to Eileen…you two are the two people I know that just get shit done.”  Coincidentally, I randomly met her the very next day at a Billboard conference, but that’s besides the point.

Don’t become a talker or enter a toxic business relationship with one.  Since I was a talker, I can detect bullshit when I meet people, which is sort of why I started doing my homemade pizza nights, so I could get the real people who make shit happen together.  These pizza nights eventually lead to the creation of the Backyard Brunch Sessions, which is a huge chance I took both with my time and my money.  So far, I’d like to think that’s been a beautiful experiment that, if executed expertly in its first season, it will lead to a creative and monetary success.

So now the question is:  what sort of person are you?





Inspiration is viral

21 05 2010

I was talking to my friend Barbara yesterday.  She told me that I inspired her to seek sponsorship for this project she’s working on called the Philly Folk Parade.  It’s a collective of Philly folk musicians including herself, Hezekiah Jones, Chris Kasper, Birdie Busch, Cowmuddy, Andrew Lipke, Sisters 3, and MORE.

My response to her:  “Inspiration gets passed back and forth.  I do what I can bc someone inspired me somewhere along the line.  That sort of positive energy is viral.”

Call me hippie all you want (even those days are LOOONG gone for me), but I honestly believe that if we surround ourselves with positive, supportive and inspiring people, we will grow together.  This is particularly why I have been so supportive of Barbara for the Folk Parade…she’s essentially creating an Okayplayer for Philly’s vibrant folk scene.  It will work because they’re helping each other out and the music is pretty damn good.

So if you’re ever inspired, pass it on.








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