When You Say NO, the World Gets Smaller (for better or worse)

1 02 2012

A month or so ago I went solo to see The Descendents. It was literally the first time I didn’t have ANYTHING to do in a while, so I figured I’d to do some wandering to put myself outside of my usual NYC experience (which is usually limited to lower Manhattan, Upper Brooklyn, and culinary trip to Queens) and go to the Upper West Side. I realized through George Clooney’s character that he had trouble adapting outside of his way of doing/experiencing things and that part of me was the same way.

I’ve been fairly extreme throughout my life in regards to how/when I open and close the door to experience. Recently, I’ve gotten conformable and had a tight grasp on an understanding of who I think I am and am fairly blunt as whether or not something new would fit into that perception of myself. The fact remains, when you say NO to something, the world gets smaller until all you have left is a box to fit something into, which is why I’ve been trying make more efforts towards saying YES to something and taking more of a chance.

After the movie, I explored the Upper West Side. I was hungry and frustrated, yet I refused to “settle” on a brunch place. Settle meaning go to someplace outside of my usual preference of amazing, cheapish, and without a wait. While I was walking around, I envisioned a place that I’d go to for a brunch in Brooklyn on a typical weekend, which is the wrong way to go about it. I said YES to a new area, but was saying NO to accepting it for what it was.

I realized that part of traveling (for me the UWS is a distant far off land) is absorbing the culture, so I snapped out of it and settled on a bakery called Cafe Lalo(which I mistakenly thought was pronounced lay-lo instead of lah-lo). Had I not pushed myself to adapt to the area, I probably would have gotten fed up and gone to some place that would have been awful or gone back to Williamsburg for a bagel.

In life, you’re always going to be out of your comfort zone, so you always have to find ways to adapt and say YES to something new. Saying YES opens the world up more to new possibilities you might not have known existed.





Oh, the Places You’ll Go at Burning Man

10 01 2012

Saw this on a friend’s Facebook wall over the weekend and thought I’d share. I’ve always considered myself a fan of Dr. Seuss, but haven’t read this particular book since I was a kid. You can also read the entire text here.

With the New Year and my birthday practically overlapping, it’s hard to ignore existential questions from clouding my thoughts and dreams surrounding the first few weeks of the year.

Seeing this video in particular, I must ask myself where I want to go physically (travel), professionally (career-wise), and mentally (insight into myself and life itself).

I need to decide which direction I will steer then get on my way. It might just be Burning Man





Looking for the details

5 12 2011

Sometimes I find myself taking things on first view without inspection instead of asking questions or looking for details that don’t present themselves initially.  It’s lazy and worsens one’s ability to be critical.

When I was cleaning out my grandmother’s apartment in Philly with my mom and sister, my sister found this old picture with musicians performing.  It was very “me” to say the least, so I brought it back to Brooklyn with me.

Flash forward a couple weeks.  I went on an overnight trip to Philly with my roommate Paul to see Ryan Adams.  We stayed at my parent’s house and when my mom asked what he thought of the picture, it dawned on me that he hadn’t seen it yet since we have conflicting schedules.  When we got back to the apartment I showed him the picture and he asked if I knew anything about it.

It reignited my desire to find out more details, so I googled “Sam Ashkynase Conductor” because they were the only words that we easily legible on the band sign in the picture.  The first thing that came up was Sam Ash’s wiki page.  For those who don’t know, Sam Ash Music is one of the most successful music instrument retail chains in the country.  This led me to 3 theories on why my grandparents had this picture:

  1. I had a family member in the band.
  2. I’m related to Sam Ash somehow.
  3. Sam Ash’s family were friends with my grandfather’s family (both of Austria-Hungarian descent)

Paul, interested in helping me out, tracked down one of the current top execs at Sam Ash Music (via Linked In).  He then figured out the email address formats for Sam Ash employees (ie first.last@company.com), so I contacted what I thought to be the email address for that exec (it thankfully didn’t bounce back). Concurrently, I emailed my parents, sister, uncle, and cousins to let them know about this, to which my mom replied that either of them could be theoretically possible since my great grandfather moved from Austria to New York City.

As of now, I’m still waiting on a response from Sam Ash, but it boggles me what one picture, pushing myself to look for the details, and investigating further can do.  It’s about the picture, but it’s not at the same time because there’s a pleasure in finding things out…Richard Feyman would agree.

UPDATE:  I got a response from Sam Ash Music and should be meeting with them soon





Two friends release new albums…for free

7 03 2011

Hey friends.  It’s been a while, but I can explain…I swear!  I’ve been focusing on my new job, SoundCtrl, and developing the second season of BBS, BUT I would love to share with you all new music coming from two extremely brilliant musicians who I’m proud to call friends.

Craig Rockwell aka Trumpets in the Snow (stream below and download new album here) and Jon Sheldrick aka Awning (stream new album below and subscribe to mailing list for free download).  I met both of them during my Ropeadope days and they continue to push the technological boundaries of electronic sound.

Trumpets (below) sounds like Animal Collective meets Grizzly Bear and Volcano Choir (Justin Vernon).

Awning sounds like Bibio, BT, James Brown, and Baths having a weird baby together.

Hope you folks enjoy!





My family friend Kenny has grown up

29 07 2010

Kenny Hoffpauer, who lives around the corner from my parents in Philly, came over to my house when he was 16 saying he was serious about being in music and was going to try out for American Idol.  Well he ended up making the top 50 on AA, so I figured the kid was at the very least marketable.

3 years later, he’s 19 and is over the bubblegum crap he thought he needed to do to get a name for himself.  Kenny is growing up and figuring out his style.  That being said, my Mom called me this morning and asked, “have you seen Kenny’s new videos that I emailed you.  The Frank Sinatra one is pretty good.”

So, if only for my Mom to stop calling me about it, I checked them out.

Kenny is not a mob-connected lounge singer or a politically active Black soul singer, but he pulls off both above average showing a lot room for potential.  However, we’ll see if he’s able to translate that into creative and thoughtful pop music of his own…only time will tell.





TechCrunch Disrupt Conference

25 05 2010

I’ve been there for the past two days and have seen some incredible things and met some truly amazing people.  However, nothing was as funny as Yahoo CEO Carol Bartz telling Michael Arrington, the Co-Editor of TechCrunch, to fuck off.

For more info, check out my recap on SoundCtrl.





Best movie of the year (so far)

19 05 2010

When I got home last night from seeing Exit Through the Gift Shop, I knew I wouldn’t be going right asleep because my internal debate was too strong.  Check out the trailer below or, preferably, go to the movies and see the whole thing at one of these theatres.  And Banksy, the faceless street art godfather, has been on a “US tour” to promote the movie in the only way he could and was just in NYC.

For anyone who hasn’t seen it, Banksy was the director rather the main “star” of the film.  The documentary tracks the evolution of Thierry Guetta, the vintage store owner to Thierry the (fake) street art filmmaker to transforming himself seemingly overnight into Mister Brainwash.  (Note:  please DON’T read further if you haven’t seen it) Read the rest of this entry »








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